Photographers spend a lot of time with new couples on the day of their wedding, so they see a lot. From their point of view, these are the red flags that could potentially be a sign that your relationship won’t last as long as you’d hoped.
1. You are impatient with each other on your wedding day
Weddings are stressful, and as a result, people feel tired and lose their temper. But, if you can’t treat each other with kindness and patience, under those circumstances, that’s probably not a great sign.
2. You don’t respond well to conflict while planning and organizing
Disagreements and disputes exist during the course of preparing for your wedding. But, it is how you and your partner react to these conflicts that really reflect the truth of your relationship. One photographer claimed: “certain body language and negative behavior during on-site visits can be a red flag and a potential indication of a short marriage.”
3. You can’t compromise while planning
Marriage requires compromise if the couple can’t compromise while planning, it could be a sign that there might be issues with compromises in the future as well. Phillips says: “this can be seen from how they solve arguments in general, and how respectful they are of one another’s opinions.”
4. One of the partners is utterly uninterested in photographs
“Not everyone is interested in photography. Many clients’ fiancés are not interested in it at all, but they’re willing to coordinate because they know the photography is critical to their partner,” says Rob Greer, a wedding photographer in LA. But one bride he met during his career refused to do that, and that couple divorced three months later.
5.You spend the entire reception with your friends
“If one of the couples are too busy hanging out with their friends all night, that’s a red flag,” photographer McKay says.
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